Thursday, June 28, 2007

My Views On Friendship

What does frenship mean to u? What about best fren ? How can u consider a person to be ur best fren ? How much do u have to commit to be a fren and best fren and how much do u need to receive to know that the person is ur fren and best fren? We have so many frens in life, how many stay and how many gone?

U see, I always have problems over frens,I dun like to have best fren and I dun like to choose fren , all who have step into my life, are consider as my fren. I don't categorise my frens.

What does best fren mean to me? to me, It's like a brain cell, telling and controlling u what to do. I believe many of u had such thing happen to u b4 too :
Best fren telling u what to do without considering your feelings


U muz be thinking that i'm behaving very childish right? At my age, there are actually people still doing it....

Those who know me well, know that I have many frens, either they are 'hi-bye' frens or or real close frens, dun be mistaken,real close frens are not best frens ..they are frens whom I can talk to freely without constrain

Usually people will tell me,"it's good to have best fren so that i can confide in them"
For me, its different cos' I have Jason to confide in most of the time, however,there are things woman can't tell her man(not unfaithful things lah) so i still need a fren.
So who do I confide my stuff to? To anyone whom I feel comfortable with,It can be u...depending on what topic my problem is.

So, dear frens out there, dun be mistaken by my actions if u feel that I'm not treating u as best fren, in fact I treasure all my frens equally.

So, dun control me, dun tell me what to do, u are my fren, not my brain cell...

Frens are meant to enjoy life with u, through sadness and laughters, and respecting your decision in every way.

After Exams

It's been weeks after exams,wondering what I have been doing at home....
Since I have so much time, and have never try creating my own blog, so I thought i could give it a try here(Friendster),so if i like it, i would set one up in blogspot..so frens keep a lookout for my updates and feel free to leave comments..
Now I should be enjoying my holidays,yet I can't help thinking about my results..I did quite badly this year and really worry that next year gonna do more than 4units..which is going to be very stress as it's my final year and I don't wish to drag any longer.
Though Jason keep saying what has been done cannot be undone,as long as i did my best everything will be alright...sighz! How? Listen to him loh...(However I have sleepless nights due to worrying over this problem)

Life in SIM is great cos' I have few good pals(Venise, Melvin and Brandon),they are helpful and fun.They are also my great studymates,and always thinking of crabs(Craps loh!Hahah)

Last year this time,I was working in my previous company(EduGreen student care centre),so I was quite occupied,but this year,I'm jobless(other than giving tuition),low income so surviving on Jason..poor laogong.
He has to pay for his bike repairs and services,his own meals, and he still pay for me my phone bills..the most important thing is that he won't go after me for money when I sign his credit card..he allows me to go shopping with sis and frens,and pay him back slowly,Thank you laogong! I think that's wonderful,cos' i won't overspend in this way..
Life will be slightly tough for us as our house will be ready by end this year 2007,so renovation and furniture need $$...save save save...next year 5th Oct 2008 will be our customary marriage.So much things,that's why I say i can't afford to spend another year in SIM
Well,let fate decides my life for studies

Thinking back,straight after my exams which was 8th June,sis and me had our exams at expo,so we went for dinner and ktv,enjoyed ourselves so much.

The next morning,I followed Jason and frens to Pasir Gudang.It was our 1st time there.It's interesting,you can see all kinds of bikes(though mostly Ducati for that day)zooming past at high speed!wow!
Had a great time there!ehh....was a real hot day,heee!



On the following day,which was a Sunday,we joined a new group of busa frens to Melaka...Shiok!
and Finally bought a pair of mickey and minnie back for our wedding and new house!Can't wait till i see my new house,I want everything related to Mickey!!!


Other than having Jason,I have 2 other good Pals(Carine and Angela) to accompany me in the evenings..we went makan n makan n makan,that's y I getting fat.
We even went crazy over the Mango Sales,we bought same tops but different colours..Gals,WHen are we going to wear out together?
Will people think we working for Mango?Free advertisement huh?hehehee!
REally thank God I have them,They filled my life with laughters